Wednesday, August 28, 2013

“Petty” Tips for a great family vacation

Over the years of traveling with family, I have learned a few things that make the trip run smoothly.


1.        Pack plenty of activities to keep kids busy in the car.  Our family vacations were pre-video players in cars.  So we had to carry LOTS of things to do.  Tip:  Crayons melt in hot cars in the summertime.  Once I bought a lot of small, inexpensive toys and placed them in brown paper lunch bags, stapled shut.  When the conversation in the car became “She’s looking at me” and “Mama, he is touching my car seat”, it was time to open another bag.

2.       Pack plenty of snacks and liquids to drink in the car.  Tip:  Chocolate melts in hot cars in the summertime.  Jimmy always wanted apples and chewing gum.  Small packages of crackers with cheese or peanut butter were great.  Bottled water was not a staple back then, so a thermos of ice water or lemonade and cups with lids were the rule to quench thirst.  Jimmy also liked for his mom to make him a bunch of her “smush burgers” for him to eat.  When he was a kid, the family packed a stalk of bananas and a 3 lb. pack of hot dogs to eat on the way to Chattanooga.  Yes, you could buy bananas still on the stalk back then.
Rock City, Lookout Mt., TN

Wading at Cades Cove, Great Smokey Mountains
 
 
 
3.       Take plenty of rest stops. I wonder if John, Anne & Kathryn realized that those jump ropes and Frisbees that we took on the long ride to carry Kathryn home from Mississippi to Ohio were to wear them out at the rest stops on the interstate so that they might want another nap on the way.
4.       Be prepared for disagreements between the driver and the navigator.  Now days it is the GPS that gets the blame for a wrong turn.  Back then the person in the front passenger seat kept a paper map that could never be refolded properly to navigate the path to the vacation destination.  Inevitably, turns would be missed and the kids in the back seats were able to add new words to their vocabulary.
 
5.       Pack for every possible emergency.  We must have believed that vacation destinations did not have pharmacies, grocery stores or general merchandise stores.  We packed our suitcases on the “what if” principle.  That made packing the car a challenge that even Einstein would have wanted to avoid. Two items that Jimmy always insisted on packing were a roll of paper towels and a spray bottle of window cleaner.  He couldn’t stand having bugs on the windshield.  Paper towels also came in handy with kids’ messes.

 
6.       Families with more than 2 children or with an older teenager need a van with at least 3 rows of seats.  The back seat is the only place for a teenager on a vacation.  Space from the rest of the family is necessary for the coexistence of family members related to a teenager.  The back seat needs to be outfitted with a pillow and blanket and some form of sound emanating from a device that uses earphones.
7.       Take lots of photos.  The photos will be necessary to embarrass your children years later when you blog online.  Be aware that the willingness of children to be photographed on family vacations decreases with age.  That is the reason that the older sibling appears less frequently in vacation photos.
 
 

 
 
 

Disney World

Kennedy Space Center
 

Monday, August 5, 2013

The Evolution of the Jim Petty Moustache

When I first Jim Petty in college his face was as bare as it was the day he was born.  His venture in the world of "hair statements" in the early years of our marriage was to let the locks on top grow to the shaggy stage.  We both went long with the hair in the young days.

1972

First year teacher 1970
Young Junior High Principal late 1970s



Late 1980s
 

Campaign poster 1994
Chemo did not defeat the moustache!
 



As a first year teacher, he remained clean shaven for his yearbook photo.  But soon the lure of facial hair began to intrigue him and his experimentation began.  I wasn't quite sure if I would like a moustache at first.  It didn't take long to get used to seeing him taking as much care grooming the hair beneath his nose with a tiny moustache comb and pair of small scissors to keep the "look" in shape.  At times he spent more time in front of the mirror as I did.

The most difficult moustache look to groom was the handlebar that he sported for a while.  Unfortunately, we neglected to get of photo of him with the ends curled up like the villain in a melodrama. He had to buy special wax to keep the curl from drooping at the ends. 

When deer season started to approach, the razor went on holiday.  Beards help keep the face warm in a freezing deer stand was his justification.  I got used to that, too.  But warm weather meant the razor went back on duty.  Hot summer days in the south are not easy on beards.  I don't know how the Duck Dynasty bunch maintain their beards in the Louisiana heat and humidity.

Most folks who knew Jimmy as an adult probably thought he had always had some kind of hair adorning his face, or at least his upper lip.  I don't think our children ever saw him without at least the moustache.  When chemo came into the picture, we wondered what would happen. Jimmy had me shave his head after the first treatment because, as he said, he "didn't want his hair to fall into his Rice Krispies" one morning.  But he didn't want to touch the moustache.  And the chemo didn't touch it either.  The eyebrows disappeared, but the moustache never gave up.  He still had the same smile peeking out from under the moustache and the sense of humor that was the hallmark of Jim Petty never stopped. 

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